Creating meaning in life to live well

Growing up in a turbulent era 
By Foong Pek Yee
THE soldiers came knocking on their door one night.
They were told to pack their bags before they got shoved into an army truck.
Huddled in darkness, she and her family members feared for their life throughout the journey from their home in Chemor, Perak to an undisclosed destination.
Recalling the ordeal, Phang who was only 13 then, says stories of  villagers went missing after they were taken away by soldiers  were real.
It was in the  early 1950s, and a turbulent era  in then Malaya.
Phang says she and her family were considered “dai maeng” (literally translated to big life in Cantonese – a term to denote someone who cheated death).
They were taken to Merbau New Village in Manjung, Perak – a  barb wire settlement under curfew – about 80km from Chemor.
It is among the 452 new villages set up by the colonial government to cut contact between the Chinese and the communists.
(The colonial government deemed the Chinese as supporters of the communists)
“It was a long journey before the truck came to a halt. We were told to get down and get inside an attap shack,” she says pointing to the village  community hall next to a coffeeshop where she was having her lunch .
“It was just an attap shack then,” she recalls.
This place certainly has a special place in her heart.
Good old days:   Once an attap shack that gave shelter to the temporary homeless 
Phang says they stayed in the shack for a while before each family was  given a plot of land in the village to build a house and do whatever they can to survive.
She recalls planting vegetables, tapioca and rearing animals for a living.
Phang  took a walk down memory lane when I met her at the coffeeshop recently.
Phang and Chang, the wife of the coffeeshop owner, came across as close friends.
Moments in life: Chang finds time to catch up with Phang (seated) 
Villages are basically close knitted communities.
Phang who got married and stayed on in Merbau has five children. Her husband passed away several years ago.
She says her eldest sister, in her 80s,  her only surviving sibling, stays in Chemor.   Phang is the youngest among four siblings.
Phang is taking care of her youngest child – a daughter in her 50s- who is not well.
A hard life, but all is not lost.
Growing up in the turbulent years has made her resilient to any challenges life throws at her.
“I live each day well,” says Phang when asked what  a typical day is like for her these days.

他不放弃

by Foong Pek Yee
13 Dec, 2021
HIS garden is a sight to behold.
It is a symbol of love and hope.
At 82, Phang See Kong has been planting perilla plants at the backyard of Gopeng Museum since a few months ago.
“Are they (leaves) pretty?  They come in 10 different colours and shades,” says Phang who tends  to his plants daily.
He has a few hundred pots of the plants,  and he hopes to sell them to raise funds to maintain the  museum.
Labour of love:  The Perilla Garden  at the backyard of Gopeng Museum
The museum which offers free admission  has been shut down due to the pandemic.
It is set to re-open in January 2022
Phang who is the museum’s curator  has been at wits end to raise funds to maintain the museum he co-founded in 2009 with three others  –  Bernard Yaw, Wong Kuan Cheong and Tan Yoke Chun.
Wong had passed away while Yaw has migrated a few years ago.
Only Tan and Phang continue to stay in Gopeng, about 18km from Ipoh city centre.
Phang was a teacher and headmaster in Gopeng where he spent his entire working life.
He went on to serve in Gopeng as special assistant to then Gopeng Member of Parliament and Housing and Local Government Minister Tan Sri Dr Ting Chew Peh between 1991 and 2008.
Phang is also a writer.
 His book   ” A Meander down Memory Lane (1850-2000) ”  documenting Chinese pioneers in Gopeng – a famous tin mining area until the collapse of the world tin market in the 1980s- was published in 2016.
A pot of the perilla plant is priced between RM18 and RM12.
Phang can be contacted at 016-5421287.